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Community Guidelines

MyBodySite.com is a positive social community where men and women can connect with others with similar interests about fitness, weight loss, sports training and bodybuilding.

Everyone has different experiences and body images and it is important to us that everyone feels comfortable here so that they can safely share stories, vent, feel that they are not in it alone, give and get advice, learn, and enjoy.

It doesn’t matter if you have no experience with fitness at all or if you are already a competitive bodybuilder or athlete.   MyBodySite.com is and should be a place where anyone can come and feel welcome and safe and not be subject to personal attacks or disrespectful behavior. These guidelines are intended to make MyBodySite.com the greatest place on the Internet to openly discuss body improvement and goal achievement, for everyone.

If you’re not sure what is acceptable conduct at MyBodySite.com, try to imagine you are face to face with other members, at the gym or at the store in your neighborhood.   Act in a way that would be acceptable in that context and everyone will do just fine.  Otherwise, the MyBodySite.com Team will have to treat you they way you would be treated if you acted inappropriately in person (and some of our team are really big, strong people) (wink).  You get the idea.  

Rules of Conduct at MyBodySite

The following are rules you should keep in mind when using MyBodySite.com.  Failure to follow these rules can result in termination of your account. Click on any rule to read about it in more detail.

  1. Be respectful of others, especially when disagreeing with them.
  2. Debate is great, but it should be done in a constructive way.
  3. Don’t harass or personally attack others.
  4. No ganging up.
  5. Slurs, stereotyping, and hate speech are not tolerated.
  6. Don’t annoy others by posting the same thing again and again.
  7. If you’re going to post something controversial, be prepared for others to disagree with you and your ideas.
  8. Don’t post something just to inflame others.
  9. Don’t ask other members for help in the form of money, gifts or donations.
  10. Only post advertisements and promotions in designated areas. 
  11. Be respectful of others when posting any content that is adult in nature.
  12. No nude, explicit or obscene photographs.  Please dress accordingly
  13. Don’t share your personal information with someone unless you’re absolutely certain it is safe to share with that person.
  14. Don’t share personal information about anyone else.
  15. If you suspect that someone on the site is an imposter or not legitimate, report the problem to MyBodySite.com Team and we will deal with it. 
  16. Help us keep MyBodySite.com orderly by reporting any problems you see on the site including people, photos and posts that break these rules. 
  17. Don’t do anything criminal or illegal on MyBodySite.com or encourage anyone else to do so. 
  18. You may discuss MyBodySite’s policies, but only in the designated area. 

MyBodySite's responsibilities & your responsibilities

We will not look at every post, photo or comment made on the site nor do we guarantee the integrity of every member on the site.  But, if we catch something that we believe violates our guidelines or the MyBodySite.com Terms of Service – either because we noticed it or you reported it – we will act on it.

When you report something to us that you believe violates these guidelines or the MyBodySite.com Terms of Service, we will do our best to review it. We will not always agree with you that there is a problem. When we do agree, we will take the action that we feel is appropriate. While we listen to our members, we have the final say on whether content or conduct is permissible under these guidelines and our Terms of Service.  We will not always be able to tell you about what action we’ve taken and we will not be able to debate the issue.   We will, however, take your feedback under advisement for the future.

We generally won’t take action against older content that violates these guidelines. We feel our efforts are better spent focusing on current issues on the site.

You have the tools to remove comments made to your profile page, blog posts, photos and videos. Please use these tools at your own discretion and, if appropriate, before you report an issue to us.  If someone posts comments on your stuff, that you don’t like, you have the discretion to block that person from contacting you again.

You also have tools to control who sees the many components of the content you post. Utilize these privacy settings as you see fit to protect your information.

Most groups are run by the men and women who started them, not by MyBodySite.com.  Group owners are responsible for making their own guidelines for the group and enforcing them as desired. Group owners are able to remove posts, comments and members from their groups. If a group owner needs help with an issue that he or she can’t deal with, he or she should contact us for assistance. Groups must abide by the MyBodySite.com Group Guidelines.

We always have the right to remove postings, lock postings, warn members, suspend accounts, and/or cancel accounts to enforce these guidelines or the MyBodySite.com Terms of Service or as we deem necessary to maintain the integrity of the site or our business. Whatever action we choose to take, our decision is final. We will not always explain our actions, but rest assured we do not take these decisions lightly.

We are not responsible for what happens off the site, even if it was organized on MyBodySite.com. Be careful whom you talk to, whom you trust, and what you do in the real world based on what you read online.

Finally, please remember that we are just trying to make this the best fitness social network possible for as many people as possible. If we feel that by removing a post or a member, we can make the site experience better for the rest of the members, we will do it. Or, we could decide that a posting that you find objectionable is within the guidelines. You may not always think our decisions are fair and you may not always agree with us. Arguing with us or harassing us will not change our minds, although it might eventually lead to your removal from the site.  Please respect our decisions on how to administer the site.   Let’s all treat each other with respect and work together to make this a great place for everyone.

These guidelines are a work in progress. We may revise these guidelines at any time and without prior notice.

MyBodySite.com Detailed Rules of Conduct (aka The Fine Print)

1. Be respectful of others, especially when disagreeing with them.

It’s simple – Be nice to others. This is the most important thing for everyone to remember. You can be opinionated.  You can say that your opinion is better than someone else's.  You can be opposed to the ideas or opinions of others, and can say so.  But don’t be nasty about it. Mean people are not welcome at this website.  We don’t care how strong or smart you are.  You can still be nice.

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2. Debate is great, but it should be done in a constructive way.

Discussion and debate are not only allowed, they are encouraged. But, if a healthy discussion breaks down into an exchange of attacks and insults or becomes too heated, we will take measures to end the discussion.

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3. Don’t harass or personally attack others.

When a discussion gets heated or involves a topic you feel passionate about, it’s sometimes tempting to cross the line and stop talking about the issues and instead talk about the people involved. Don’t do it. No name-calling. If you must "vent" your feelings about another MyBodySite.com member, do it without identifying him or her or better yet, privately message someone to discuss it. Don’t use a screen name or any other information that is likely to make someone recognizable to other members or cause a fight.

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4. No ganging up.

You may not like everyone on MyBodySite.com. But don’t harass someone or tell all your friends to go harass someone because you don’t like something that person said.

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5. Slurs, stereotyping, and hate speech are not tolerated.

Slurs, hate speech and attacks aimed at any race, color, religion, national origin, disability or sexual orientation are not tolerated at all on MyBodySite.com and will be removed. Don’t stereotype people.  It’s not funny and it isn’t acceptable. 

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6. Don’t annoy others by posting the same thing again and again.

Don’t post the same thing multiple times. Don’t post the same thing multiple times. Don’t post the same thing multiple times. Don’t post the same thing multiple times. Don’t post the same thing multiple times.

It’s annoying – right? Also, don’t make new posts that simply link back to old posts. Don’t post the same photo over and over again. Do something once and see what happens; don’t try to force your ideas on people by reposting. In addition, don’t cross-post on multiple groups. Once or twice is fine, but more than that is spamming.

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7. If you're going to post something controversial, be prepared for others to disagree.

Remember that when you post something, especially about a controversial topic, expect that your viewpoints and opinions may be vigorously questioned, challenged, and held up to scrutiny. If having your opinions challenged and being expected to defend your position will make you uncomfortable, please don't post about that topic.

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8. Don't post something just to inflame others.

Posts designed solely to upset another person or group of people have no place at MyBodySite.com. They simply pollute the air and make it a less inviting place for everyone.

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9. Don't ask other members for help in the form of money, gifts or donations.

It is not acceptable to ask another member for money, goods or services.  We appreciate the stress from financial pressures. You can, however, suggest that members donate to official charities (like the Red Cross or March of Dimes).

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10. Only post advertisements and promotions in designated areas.

Advertising includes, but is not limited to:

  • Work at home businesses
  • Products that you are selling (personal or professional)
  • Job opportunities
  • Charities and charitable causes
  • Promoting another website (personal, non-business websites are fine, anything else is not)
  • Promoting your entry in a contest (e.g,. "vote for me in the hot legs contest on 123hotlegs.com!")

Each MyBodySite.com Group can be promoted in Blog Posts once per day. Each person can promote a maximum of three groups per day.

The only places on MyBodySite.com where it is acceptable to post advertisements and promotions are:

  • On your profile page
  • In groups that allow advertising and promotion
  • In messages to members who have explicitly asked for information on a business.

In addition, pyramid schemes are illegal and posting information about pyramid schemes in any forum on MyBodySite.com is prohibited.

Do not use private messaging functions or bulletins to promote any business.

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11. Be respectful of others when posting any content that is mature in nature.

We all have different thresholds for what we are comfortable seeing and reading. In order to make MyBodySite.com comfortable for everyone, please adhere to the following guidelines when posting content that may not be suitable for everyone.

Cursing and adult content are prohibited in the public areas of MyBodySite.com. This includes: profile photos/avatars, screen names, thought bubbles, profile pages, blog post titles, group names, group descriptions, group profile photos/avatars, signatures, widgets, and other similar places.

If you post a photo that is mature in nature, you must make a private gallery to hold it.  Pictures flagged this way will not show in public photo sorts.   Mature photos include photos that depict anything that you would not show your kids or your friends’ kids or where you are wearing something that would be unacceptable on a family oriented beach.   Mature photos also include any photo which depict conducts you would find unacceptable standing in a public place where all age groups are present (groping yourself or others, bending over suggestively, lifting your clothing to expose breasts, butt or private parts, including photos that display pubic hair or areas where pubic hair was removed). 

If your blog post contains cursing or adult topics, it will probably be deleted by our monitors so save yourself the trouble and don’t do it.  You can talk that way in your private messages to others at your discretion.

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12. No nude photographs. 

Have fun, participate in lively discussions about your body, fill your private gallery with pictures of the tiny bikini you wore to Rio last year, but save the nude photos for your bedroom.  Nudity is not permitted on MyBodySite.com.    While we will not police user photo albums, we will allow others to flag nude photos which will then be deleted by our staff.

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13. Don’t share your personal information with someone unless you’re absolutely certain it is safe to share with that person.

Would you give your phone number, street address or anything else to a person you just met in a gym or at the smoothie cafe? Maybe you would – if you trusted that person or knew someone in common. But you probably wouldn’t give it out to someone you knew little about. The same is true online. Don’t give out your personal information to anyone else unless you’re sure it’s safe.

And don’t give money to people who ask for it online. While their stories may move you, you have no way of knowing if they are legitimate. We can’t verify the identities of everyone on the site and you use the site at your own risk. We urge you to learn and follow best practices for staying safe online.  We will not be responsible for what happens if you give money to people requesting it on MyBodySite.com.

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14. Don’t share personal information about anyone else.

You should also not share or post anyone else’s personal information. Don’t repost messages from private groups or messages in public places. If the information was posted in a private group, assume that the member wants it to remain private.

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15. If you suspect that someone on the site is an imposter or not legitimate, report the problem to the MyBodySite.com Team and we will deal with it.

If you think you’ve found an "imposter" or suspect that a member is not "legitimate," let us know by using the "Contact Us" link at the bottom of each page. We will investigate promptly. Do not threaten, harass or make blog posts about your suspicions. Doing this will only interfere with and slow down our efforts to get to the truth quickly.

Likewise, if we discover that you are pretending to be someone you are not, we will cancel your account.

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16. Help us keep MyBodySite.com orderly by reporting any problems you see on the site including posts that violate these rules.

If you see something that violates these rules and it bothers you, then report it to us and we will do our best to investigate it. You don’t need to report things multiple times or have your friends also report the same issue. We try to review everything sent to us and sending it multiple times just slows things down for everyone.

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17. Don’t do anything criminal or illegal on MyBodySite.com or encourage anyone else to do so.

Any postings that we reasonably believe or suspect are criminal or illegal in nature will be removed and any conduct that we suspect is illegal or which poses a threat of illegal activity will be reported to the appropriate authorities. We will cooperate with authorities to prosecute anyone who breaks the law while using our site. Do not link to sites containing criminal or illegal activity.

Specifically, the discussion of the use of performance enhancing substances will not be tolerated if it appears that illegal conduct is taking place or links to illegal websites are being posted.  We understand that many bodybuilders and other athletes use performance-enhancing drugs and that not all of them are illegal.  However, we will err on the side of deleting content if we think there is any risk of illegal conduct.    In any event, such discussions will only be allowed in a designated area of the discussion forums.

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18. You may discuss MyBodySite.com policies, but only in the designated area.

Don't agree with MyBodySite.com policy and want to your voice to be heard?  There is a special public group at http://www.mybodysite.com/groups/policies where you can discuss with the MyBodySite.com Team, in a constructive way that follows all of the above rules, what the policies of MyBodySite.com are, why they are a certain way, and help us shape what the policies should be.

We are open to constructive feedback and will be honest with everyone about the reasoning behind our policies. If you create public blog posts about policy issues, they will be removed.  Similarly, if we detect that you are private messaging multiple users, sending bulletins or otherwise spamming the other members about your issue with policy issues, your account will be terminated.   We think that providing an open forum for honest two-way debate is better than individual attempts to sway opinion in a negative, secretive way.   We think you will agree!

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No haters allowed.

No kidding.   You can debate.  You can discuss. You can offer constructive criticism.  But MyBodySite.com is a positive place for positive discussion.   Enjoy it and be encouraging to others.  Our mission is to help people.  Haters never help.

- The MyBodySite.comTeam.